A free, research-backed diagnostic that shows you how you show up in relationships — whether you're in one or not.
Free. Private. No signup required.
50+
Years of research synthesized
5
Validated frameworks
6,000+
Participants in source studies
90%
Gottman’s prediction accuracy
Three steps. Ten minutes. One report you'll actually want to read.
40 questions designed by relationship researchers. Scenario-based, not clinical. You’ll recognize yourself in every answer option.
Your responses are scored across five scientific frameworks — Gottman, attachment theory, Big Five personality, and more — then woven into a single narrative by AI.
A personalized Relationship Health Report with real insights, specific conversation scripts, and a clear picture of your strengths and blind spots.
This isn't a personality quiz. It's five decades of research, synthesized.
Pairscope draws from the same validated instruments used in clinical research — adapted into language that actually makes sense. Each question maps to a specific scientific dimension. Each insight in your report traces back to peer-reviewed findings.
50+ years
John Gottman’s lab has studied thousands of couples. His ‘Four Horsemen’ model predicts relationship outcomes with roughly 90% accuracy. Pairscope identifies which patterns you default to.
Predicts 22% of conflict behavior
Your attachment style doesn’t just affect how you feel — it predicts how you fight. Pairscope maps your attachment orientation and shows you what it means in practice.
9-year longitudinal study
Research on 972 couples found that your own personality predicts your relationship satisfaction more than your partner’s. Pairscope focuses on the three traits that matter most.
5,315 participants validated
The CSI is the gold standard for measuring relationship satisfaction, developed using Item Response Theory across eight prior validated scales.
High consumer recognition
Combined with Gottman’s emotional bank account concept, Pairscope identifies where your giving and receiving styles diverge — and what to do about it.
Whether you're navigating a relationship or preparing for your next one.
Get a diagnostic of your current dynamic — your conflict patterns, emotional bank account, attachment interplay, and specific conversation scripts for your weak spots.
~45 questions
Understand your patterns across past relationships. See your attachment blueprint, risk factors, and what to look for (and screen for) next time.
~35 questions
No. Personality quizzes are designed to be fun and shareable. Pairscope is designed to be accurate. Every question maps to a validated scientific instrument — Gottman’s Four Horsemen Questionnaire, the ECR-R attachment scale, the Big Five Inventory, and the Couples Satisfaction Index. We adapted the wording to be conversational, but the psychometric structure is preserved.
The AI doesn’t diagnose your relationship — the science does. Your answers are scored against validated research frameworks with established clinical thresholds. The AI’s role is synthesis: it takes your scored dimensions and weaves them into a coherent, personalized narrative. Think of it as a brilliant research assistant writing up your results.
Yes. You don’t need to create an account to take the assessment or view your report. If you choose to save your report via email, that’s the only personal data we store. We never sell data. We never share individual responses. Full privacy policy available in the footer.
Absolutely — it might even be more useful. The solo mode analyzes your patterns across past relationships and your personality tendencies. Research shows your own traits predict relationship satisfaction more than your partner’s. Understanding yourself before your next relationship is one of the highest-leverage things you can do.
No, and it’s not trying to be. Pairscope is an educational and self-awareness tool. Think of it like a blood panel for your relationship health — it can reveal patterns and give you language for what you’re experiencing, but it’s not treatment. If your report surfaces something serious, we include resources for finding professional support.
About 10 minutes for the assessment. Your report is generated in under 30 seconds. Reading and digesting it — that might take longer.
Yes. After you get your report, you can invite your partner to take their own independent assessment. Each person gets their own report. A combined couples analysis is on our roadmap.
Now find out what — and what to do about it.
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